In honor of Mother’s Day, Bree Noble shares her personal and professional insights on what it really looks like to pursue a music career while being a mom. For many women, there’s a persistent myth that motherhood and a thriving music career simply can’t coexist. But, as Bree Noble emphasizes throughout the episode, not only is it doable—it can actually lead to a more intentional, creative, and fulfilling journey.
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Pushing Back Against Societal Expectations
From early on, mothers are often told—both subtly and overtly—that they should put everyone else’s needs before their own. This can lead to guilt about pursuing personal dreams, especially something as demanding as a music career. But Bree Noble challenges these misconceptions, arguing that being both a dedicated mom and a driven musician is possible, even if it might look different than you once imagined .
Finding Your Unique Path
Real talk: Your music career post-parenthood probably won’t resemble the one you had before you became a mom—or the one you originally envisioned. But Bree Noble believes that’s not necessarily a bad thing. She suggests setting your career up around “seasons”—for example, touring when your kids are young and more easily portable, and pulling back when their own lives become busier with things like school and activities .
Practical Strategies
According to Bree Noble, it’s important to get creative with the types of gigs you pursue. She highlights daytime or family-friendly performances, like community events, churches, nonprofits, and even outdoor festivals, as excellent options . You might also need to rely on your support network—think: bringing a grandparent on tour or trading childcare with friends .
Efficiency is key, too. Bree Noble talks about fitting work into small pockets throughout the day—during naps, school hours, or even while the kids are occupied with a puzzle .
Involving Your Kids
Rather than hiding your music career from your children, Bree Noble recommends getting them involved. Not only does this show them what it means to follow a dream, but it can also be a powerful bonding experience—and teach them new skills .
Being a Role Model
One of the most rewarding parts? Showing your children, especially daughters, that women don’t have to choose between family and career. By modeling a life where you pursue your passion, you help them see what’s possible for their own futures .
It’s Not the End—It’s a New Beginning
As Bree Noble concludes, becoming a mom doesn’t end your music career; it transforms it into something deeper and possibly even more meaningful than you imagined . With creativity, support, and flexibility, female musicians can craft a career that complements their life as a mother.
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